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Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Helpful and Healing or Critical and Wounding

Loving Reminder for Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Helpful and Healing or Critical and Wounding

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Helpful and Healing or Critical and Wounding

Loving you now and always, Betty Lue

March 21, 2012

Everything is a choice. Which Voice do you listen to? Which way do you choose? Who do you trust?

How do you treat your loved ones? How do you speak to your partner, children, parents and friends? What is your inner self talk. Kind or critical? When we can relate to everyone with the respect toward an honored guest, we are healing ourselves!

What we think of ourselves is what we teach others to think of us. How we treat ourselves is the way we demonstrate others can treat us. What we give to others in our thoughts, words and interaction tells them what we think of ourselves. All our relationships are a reflection of our inner relationship with past imprinting and experiences.

To be an angel, a healer, a transformative agent, a loving Presence, we must first heal within. This healing is always to clear our own archived material, held in Mind, to find our heart, Love ItSelf. We can only know by setting ourselves and everyone free to love and respect, trust and be free. It requires that we release all that dissuades, distracts, diminishes and discourages us.

Letting go can be fun and safe, easy and quick. All it requires is that we be happy and willing to forgive, erase and undo. Forgiveness is an eraser filled with Love. With true forgiveness, what we judge is undone, never happened.

Yes, the mistakes, sins and ignorant stuff is repeated because we feel guilt and shame. Where we judge or are judged is held in Mind and is doomed to repeat itself, because thoughts create. How do you clear your psyche, the archived memories of harm and resentment? Constant forgiveness clears away the stuff of time, until time is no more and we are present in Love.

Love yourself first, last and always….no matter what. Give yourself credit for learning, healing, beginning again. Honor yourself for remembering Who and Whose You Are. See yourself as precious and Good and Holy as you are created to be.

“Child of God, you were created by your Creator, to be creative. We are here to create what is Good, Beautiful and Holy.”

Forgive, erase and release all thoughts to the contrary. Let every thought, image, word and deed create what is Good, Beautiful and Holy. If you find yourself forgetting, forgive your error quickly with no need to ask “Why?”. And simply choose again to remember your Truth and think, speak and act from the Good in you.

We are choosing every moment. Do we listen and follow the outer voices of the world, the past, the media, and society? Or do we listen to the inner voice of God, intuition, conscience, Love Itself, our Higher Power? We can remember and be healing and Holy reminders to everyone, especially ourselves!

Loving you now and always, Betty Lue

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