Ten Commandments of Relationships

With mates, partners, friends, children, co-workers, etc.

Keep your agreements faithfully. (Communicate changes honestly and immediately.)

Give more than you expect to receive. Do more than your “fair” share.

Receive everything with open appreciation. Express your thanks sincerely and take nothing for granted.

Live your own life in integrity and on purpose. Clarify, communicate and live your mission, your path, your principles and values.

Be responsible for yourself, your work and live your life impeccably. Don’t expect others to pick up after you or take care of you.

Stop using, blame, criticism or guilt to control or manipulate. Stop making demands, threats or using neediness to get your way.

Communicate effectively and respectfully. Request a time and place and tone of voice that works for both parties.

Be your best self in all circumstances. Focus always on teaching by example. (and apologize immediately when you forget or neglect.)

Use your time together wisely. Focus on meaningful, positive and inspiring conversation and activities.

Spend time, money, energy and resources only on what you value and want to increase. Waste nothing in your relationship. No arguing, pettiness, emotional dumping or negativity.

************************************************************************* There are many more agreements which I encourage you and your partner to write together. I encourage all parties to take time to re-evaluate your agreements monthly or on a regular basis. As circumstances change, there is a need to re-commit to what works for all participants. Families need to meet to look at the specific needs of each individual to be at their best. Couples need to ensure that the relationship is “serving all parties. Business partners need to return to their original agreement and consider changing roles as needed.

Life requires that we be in relationship. With respect for ourselves and each other there is open communication. With responsibility for the quality of our relationships, there is a willingness to seek what works for all. With cooperation there is encouragement to listen for ways to serve the needs of everyone. When everyone WINS, the relationships are harmonious, peaceful and enjoyable.

Blessings to us all in our willingness to continue to explore and find better ways of relating,

Betty Lue

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